The people that students surround themselves with can shape their experience, for better or for worse. In high school, students spend all day every day with the same people, so friendships form naturally. In college, however, students learn how to balance homework, jobs, extracurricular activities and a social life. With so many competing priorities, cultivating relationships requires greater intentionality. 

“I feel like especially with college students you have to often be the one to invite or do the planning. If you are sitting around waiting for people to invite you, it’s usually not how it goes unfortunately.” – Charis McMurry, junior, communications 

Whether living in a dorm, apartment or house, students can use hosting as a way to bring people together. 

Below are five ideas to help create connection and community. 

• Decade Party:

One thing college students love is a theme, and a decade-themed party is no exception. A decade-themed party invites guests to dress in fashion from their favorite era and play music that matches the theme. From the 1970s to the early 2000s, the options vary by decade chosen.

• Dinners From Around the World:

Students can host a meal featuring dishes inspired by different countries or cultures. Each guest contributes a dish, allowing everyone to try new cuisines. The event can be held in an apartment, dorm or house and encourages creativity. 

• PowerPoint Night:

For a low-cost and interactive event, organize a PowerPoint night. Guests prepare a short presentation on a topic they are passionate about. Topics could range from lighthearted debates to pop culture recommendations. 

• Good Ol’ Capture the Flag:

Hosting events does not have to take place solely indoors. Students can gather outside for a game of capture the flag. With simple rules and minimal equipment, the game provides an active way to bring people together.

• Blind Karaoke:

Blind karaoke offers a simple twist on a traditional karaoke night. In this version, students face away from the screen while a song plays, attempting to sing along only based on the instrumental backing track. The format adds an element of surprise and works well in small spaces. 

Hosting does not require a large amount of planning or money. It simply means creating space for people to gather and for the community to grow.

“Good community is so important; you need a community that lifts you up and not tears you down.” – Benedicte Ayotte, sophomore, elementary and special education